“What students need isn’t a lecture on abstinence. They need a community that sees sex as about mutual pleasure and intimacy, not point scoring or getting something, and that doesn’t shame or problematize female sexuality. Heterosexual women need male partners who are respectful, generous in bed and emotionally competent, and who treat women like ( Read more... )

More random stuff I've been thinking about recently, particularly since the case of the door stickers the other day, because I'm in this weird situation of neither closeted nor truly out at Uni ( Read more... )

I came back from dance last night to find my roommate had put up "I support queer rights" and "Straight but not narrow" stickers on our door.

...Well, the "straight" one is a little weird, since it's my door too, but that's not the point.

Zubair, on cow-tipping: Nothing really happens, they just wake up and moo ( Read more... )

Shamelessly stealing from veredly_inferno
( In which Maia sums up her life in 25 points )

Biking around in the California sunshine = win ( Read more... )

( Ramblings about my sexuality, I inspired by an old entry I found in one of my notebooks from last summer. )

I'm at a middle eastern dance recital right now. OMG, so hot!

I just got a raise! Totally unexpected; I just got to work and the paperwork for it was sitting on my desk ( Read more... )

Mchael and I are spending more time together this year than last year. There is something seriously not right about that. Ya know, considering last year we were going out and this year we're, well, not ( Read more... )